The Bedroom

Your going to think I’m crazy but just keep reading!

Make your bedroom a place of love and romance.I know hard to do when you have kids.But your bedroom should be an off-limits place for the underage set.Keep the toys in the kids rooms (not the adult toys!).

Your room should be a sanctuary.A place for you and your lover to unwind and be together without getting a Matchbox up your butt! An occasional family session of cuddling in Mom and Dad’s bed is okay but make it known that the parents room is a special place for Mommy and Daddy. Tell the kids they like their own privacy in there room so do M&D.

Invest in some good sheets! Making love feels amazing with a high thread count under your skin.Have candles ready to be lit,scented with a romantic scent.Put a dimmer on your lights.Set the mood.Soft music.

I have found an amazing couples board game *A Hot Affair*.DH and I played this game and had an amazing time!And we talked and learned a lot about each other. We barely made it thru the 3 levels but it was so worth it! Sometimes you need to bring a little fun to bed!

Keep massage oils,fun edibles and lube close at hand! And out the the reach of little hands.

Make your bedroom into your on vacation spot! Dont have a lot of cash to run off to the beach? Well bring the beach to you.Play some ocean sounds,tropical scented candles,grab a frozen drink,put on your swimsuit and rub sun tan oil all over each other!

The possibilties are endless and up to you!

Priority

Make your partner a priority! Look at them as a lover not just your roomate.

When was the last time you gave your partner a compliment? Cant remember? Do it now! You know how good you feel when you receive one,you will feel twice as nice telling your partner something special.

Make your partner a priorty.

Ever put on some nice clothes,fix your hair,and wear a nice scent only to have your partner ask “who are you going to see?”.Well its time to do that for your partner! I’m not saying dress up in some fancy lingerie,full makeup and high heels! You do dress nice when you know you will be seeing someone important well isnt your partner important? Show them you care!

Clean up the house a little,have a nice dinner.Open up that bottle of wine you’ve been saving for something special.

Show your partner he/she is THE most important thing in your life.

Dont save all your manners for when you are out.I know your home is your comfort zone but be a lady/gentleman.Its just rude to let out a big ol burp or pass gas then blame it on the dog (even if you dont have one).You would not do it in front of your boss dont do it in front of your partner.Use your manners.
Make your partner feel special,and they will return the favor.

Please feel free to comment!

Welcome!

Hi my name is DeAnna. I have been happily married for almost 10 years. Mike and I are a very happy couple.We have 2 small children at home,Mike works outside of the home and I try to run 2 business’ inside the home.Not always easy with 2 little ones running around! But we make it work! I have been asked numerous times “why are you so happy?” or “do you ever fight?”.

The reason we are so happy together is because we love each other.We are each other’s  best friend.We support one another thru everything we go thru.Do we ever fight? Yes,every couple does but we do not let our disagreements get in the path of our love.

Thru this blog I hope to share with everyone how to make love work in a relationship. I am not an expert,and I dont have all the answers.But if I wanted relationship advice I would go to someone who is making it work not someone who is unhappy in their current situation.

I will write about different subjects.I will add my views and opinions and I welcome and encourage anyone to please add your opinions.I am very new to this so please be patient with me.

I am a Christian woman so I will be refering to God and giving biblical insights.

Thank you and I look forward to starting this blog-Intimite Issues.