Make your partner a priority! Look at them as a lover not just your roomate.
When was the last time you gave your partner a compliment? Cant remember? Do it now! You know how good you feel when you receive one,you will feel twice as nice telling your partner something special.
Make your partner a priorty.
Ever put on some nice clothes,fix your hair,and wear a nice scent only to have your partner ask “who are you going to see?”.Well its time to do that for your partner! I’m not saying dress up in some fancy lingerie,full makeup and high heels! You do dress nice when you know you will be seeing someone important well isnt your partner important? Show them you care!
Clean up the house a little,have a nice dinner.Open up that bottle of wine you’ve been saving for something special.
Show your partner he/she is THE most important thing in your life.
Dont save all your manners for when you are out.I know your home is your comfort zone but be a lady/gentleman.Its just rude to let out a big ol burp or pass gas then blame it on the dog (even if you dont have one).You would not do it in front of your boss dont do it in front of your partner.Use your manners.
Make your partner feel special,and they will return the favor.
Please feel free to comment!
Posted by carla on June 17, 2009 at 12:19 pm
I agree with you completely. When you first date someone you are full of compliments, loving looks and desire and most times before long you treat a stranger on the street with more respect then the person whom you have been through major leage issues with. I see it happen a million times and It ruins alot of relationships. Youu after a spell of time end up taking the one your with for granted and not giving them the niceties or a new relationship. I believe it should be the other way around. I come from a different back drop then you. Not being married now but a 2 time divorcee I believe that also makes me have a insight for all the things that went wrong. Once a relationship is over and the grief stopps then you can analyse all the imperfections and the things you should or should not have done.
I wish you well with your blog and I will be chirping in from time to time. Good luck my friend and keep on loving
Posted by Debbie on June 19, 2009 at 12:47 pm
Great Post…excellent advice.